The History of Caleb Ministries


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The History of Caleb Ministries

Over the years, our volunteers have been encouraged
and blessed to watch as God comforts and restores broken and hurting women through Caleb Ministries and its Outreach Ministries.

It has been a journey orchestrated by God….

On Sunday August 5, 1990, Sandy Day was sitting in her church choir loft when God placed a burden in her heart. Her heart ached to share God’s comfort with women like herself who had suffered deep, painful losses. In 1988 Craig and Sandy had experienced God’s comfort during the loss of their precious son, Caleb. In the days that followed, both she and her husband gave prayerful consideration to the organization of a ministry to others who were experiencing sorrow. That ministry would be named in memory of their much loved and missed son.

In the early days of Caleb Ministries, Sandy had many opportunities to travel and share her testimony of God’s comfort through His Word. Sandy’s transparent truthfulness about her struggles impacted the lives of countless women who have attended these conferences and retreats.

After only one year of ministry, Caleb Ministries expanded to include a personal one-on-one ministry to women who had experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, early infant death or infertility. The story of Caleb in Numbers 13 and 14 from which the name Caleb Cares emerged, provided insight for this ministry to the sorrowing. It was at this time that Caleb Ministries became a 501(c)(3) non-profit Christian organization.

Even as Sandy was ministering to other women, God continued His convicting work in her life. Through His Word, God showed her that in order to minister to others, she would have to allow every area of her life to be exposed to the light of His truth. God continually exposed hidden areas that required her repentant confession in her growing walk with God. As she responded to God’s refining fire, the ministry grew with her.

One of the outgrowths of this responsiveness to God was a prayer journal called In Everything By Prayer that Sandy developed with her friend Donna Peters. Through the years, God has used this unique tool to encourage women to have a more consistent prayer life. With over 15,000 copies of the journal in print, many families have been blessed. The most popular section of the journal entitled “How to pray for your Husband/Children,” has helped many women support their families with effective prayer.

In 1993, two years into the ministry of Caleb Cares, Sandy compiled nine stories of individuals who had experienced the loss of a child and received God’s restoring grace into the book entitled Morning Will Come. Volunteers scanned the obituaries of local papers and sent copies of the book to women who had lost children. The response was overwhelming. With 10,000 copies in print, letters came from women around the world with testimony to the encouragement it had brought to them.

Caleb Cares chapters began forming across the U.S. by 1995. Each chapter began by providing copies of Morning Will Come to hurting women in their areas. It was also during this time that a Caleb Ministries Women’s Discipleship Retreat was organized. Each year since then women attend from all over the country to hear outstanding Bible teaching and find encouragement. It never fails to be a time of spiritual renewal for all who attend.

In was the summer of 1995, God brought still another dimension to Caleb Ministries. God led nine women to call the ministry who had lost babies, each indicating that they had experienced a prior abortion. As Sandy ministered to these women she realized God wanted to use her own abortion, at age 19, to help other women. In response to God’s conviction, Sandy confessed her abortion to her father, opening the door for complete family restoration. Through this difficult time, God prepared Sandy to talk publicly about the short and long-term affects of abortion. Her story exposes long held secrets and touches those who hear of the forgiving power of God.

A second manuscript used by Caleb Ministries was completed in 1998. The devotional journal, The Memories I Cherish, was developed by Sandy Day together with Donna Elyea. This beautifully presented keepsake provides a place to record the journey of one’s walk with God through the time of one’s loss in order to remember and encourage their trust and gratitude in the years to come.

The P.A.T. (Providing A Treasure) Ministry began with a passion to assist a grieving woman or couple in a loving, yet practical way. The P.A.T. box includes a burial gown, bonnet, blanket, as well as a Caleb Cares brochure, an envelope to hold a lock of the baby’s hair, and a copy of Morning Will Come. These items are wrapped in acid-free tissue paper and tucked in a precious box that parents will treasure through the years. P.A.T. boxes are provided to hospitals and funeral homes across the US, and make their way into the arms of those who, tragically, have no child to bring home. The boxes are also available by individual request.

Abbey's Place, our post-abortion ministry, got underway in 1999. Its goal is to provide support and guidance to women who are struggling with the guilt, pain, and grief of a past abortion decision. Our hope is that each person God sends to us will achieve spiritual and emotional restoration through Christ. Toward that end, a third book is being prepared to minister particularly to this growing segment of the population. The book, Living in His Forgiveness, will present stories of men and women who have successfully moved past their pain to find freedom. An accompanying Bible study will guide the seeking heart to discover God’s redeeming truth. Publication is expected in 2002.

In 1998 Craig was called to be a pastor and was accepted at The Master's Seminary located in Sun Valley, California to earn his Masters of Divinity degree.  The Master's Seminary was founded by Dr. John MacArthur, Jr. whose radio ministry is "Grace to You."  They moved to California in the fall of 1999 and Craig graduated in May of 2002.  In 2004 he was certified as a Biblical counselor with the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors (N.A.N.C.).

While the Days were in California the ministry continually grew by leaps and bounds as a West Coast Chapter began and a Caleb Ministries web site was constructed in order to make materials and contact information available to women everywhere. It is a blessing to see God use technology to distribute much-needed assistance on-line!

Caleb Chapters continue to form in other states, as God raises up godly leaders in local churches with a vision to minister to those weighted down by grief or guilt. We stand amazed at the way God burdens women to minister to women, and at the way He intervenes to make all things possible.

Since its beginnings in 1990, Caleb Ministries has flourished as God has led us as individuals, as Chapters, and as an international ministry. Faithful men and women, hand-picked by the Father, serve as Board of Directors, ministry coordinators, and volunteers. We count it a privilege to continually help women who are struggling with difficult seasons and situations and to nurture them in the ways of the Lord – the only One who can truly help and heal.

Our commitment:

“Ministering to hearts…Seeing God change lives.”



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